Most people have bought one or the other book on the relationship and tried in vain to improve their marriage, work environment, or relationships with parents and their children.
However, reading the best-selling books will serve the purpose as they are written with the bottom line in mind and not the state of the reader's heart.
When looking for a book that can help you change your relationship, look for one that encourages you to check and improve your emotional interaction with others.
Following are some of the points that are summarized from most of the best selling books on relationships:
- Be Assertiveness
This characteristic many people lack. When it comes to discussing something emotional or perhaps painful, they cower in fear and remain silent. According to relationship books, silent is not an answer to the problem, you should speak but you should consider the feeling of another person.
- Letting go of grudges
By holding on to the anger, resentment, disappointment, and sadness, they are only hurting themselves. Learning to let go will help push aside the emotional baggage and move on with your life.
- Flush Negative emotions
Flushing out the negative emotions will leave room for positive ones like love and happiness.
These are some of the things you should do in order to improve your relationships. This makes you happier and emotionally healthy.